Frequently Asked Questions

No. All sessions must follow the correct protocols of a phone consultation, followed by booking a mutually agreeable date in the diary. My calendars are usually quite booked up so please don’t expect an immediate appointment. 

Yes I am. I have a qualification as an Advanced Tantric Massage Therapist from Somananda Tantra School, I also have Reiki qualifications and have been practising healing for over 15 years now. 

Please don’t embarrass yourselves by asking for massage exchanges as this is a professional therapy and payment can be either made by BACS or cash. I also do not need a photographer and neither can I permit any videos or photos to be taken during our session. 

No. This is because it conflicts with the energy in the room as I only see 1-1 clients. Also it prevents the receiver from expressing themselves. 

I have a therapy room here in Leicester, Syston and I only see clients here, I do not do outcalls.

Yes. My therapy does not have any boundaries on sexual orientation. It is ideal for there to be a polarity of energy, hence a male therapist like myself will see a stronger connection with a female receiver purely because it maintains the polarity of Yin and Yang. 

Unfortunately, I do not have any shower facilities here. I can provide fresh towels if you wish to freshen up and use the toilets. 

No. If possible, it would be perfect if all jewellery, piercings were removed. Metal causes reactions with the energy flow of the massage. 

I provide everything. You can bring your own water bottle, towels and bathrobe. If you are allergic to nuts, please let me know as I use organic almond oil and pure aromatherapy oils.  

As mentioned previously, this is a spiritual massage and not an erotic one. There is no body to body massage here, the massage is done for healing and not sexual. I am an independent male therapist that goes by the name of Hari Trivedi. I do not employ any other therapists and there is only myself that carries out the therapy. 

Absolutely. It’s completely normal to feel nervous before a tantric massage, especially if it’s your first time. We will take time at the start to answer any questions and help you relax. There is ample time to unwind and open up before we begin healing. 

Straight and simple. This is not what we do as a healing practitioner. There is no ejaculation or wastage of energy. Yes the organs get worked on but only to release any tension in the muscles and to sublime the energy in those areas. 

The whole body becomes revitalised when all the surfaces of the genitals are stimulated and massaged. A network of reflex points corresponding to all areas of the body is located on both the lingam and yoni, as on the feet and hands. Genital areas become energetically deficient and begin to cause dysfunction if blockages and tissues are not massaged.

This therapy is only carried out if I feel it is necessary and helps with healing.

THERE IS NO EJACULATION OF ANY KIND.

In order for a lingam massage to be carried out successfully, the lingam should not be erect. Many techniques can’t be done if so and we would have to move on. There are no sexual encouragements during the massage which MUST be respected. If at any point the lingam does become erect, this is natural and nothing to worry about as I always sublime the energy and we can carry on once it comes down. The whole aim of this is to release stagnant energy. 

The genital areas are really sensitive and we ensure that there is no sexual stimulation as the intention is to awaken the energy to spread and sublime it through to the higher chakras. The effects may differ from person to person. Some may feel a blissful feeling where others may feel a sense of pleasure or an orgasmic feeling of energy throughout the body. The effects will depend also depend on the receiving power of the receiver and also on their spiritual level. 

The yoni in particular has many reflexology points which are directly linked to organs or the body and chakras. The yoni massage entails g-spot activation, mapping, cervix massage and deep massage during which all the pranic energy is spread throughout the body causing a pleasant and deep inner satisfaction. 

We all react to touch differently. All emotions can be controlled. If for any reason you do feel aroused or orgasmic, this is ok but we do not encourage this. I will simply take a break and move to work elsewhere till the energy calms down. Energy orgasms can be felt when the nervous system is stimulated, this is natural and never the goal of a healing session.

The session times vary from person to person, they usually last around 3 hours or so, sometimes more. It all depends on what gets released in the session as it’s my responsibility to let you leave balanced. 

Yes. The therapy is the perfect blend to help to get to the root of situations you may be facing. If you have been subject to trauma, then this will help you to overcome it and move on. Trauma is a deeply rooted topic and can cause a range of imbalances within the body. The good news is, this can be cured through Tantra. 

The massages are done using organic oils and no other tools, toys etc are not used at all during the therapy. This is a professional massage and not a sexual one. 

Yes the receiver is bare bodied but they are constantly covered with soft sheets and only uncovered when I work on a certain area and recover once done. 

Please rest assured that everything is handled in a harmonious manner. It is natural to feel this if it’s your first time or you don’t have the confidence. I have been practising for many years now and know how to make you feel relaxed, secure and safe. If I feel you’re maybe feeling aroused, I stop and work on another area and then see how things progress. The touch during the session is always communicated on how you like pressure, there is no tickling or stimulation like that during a tantric massage. 

The sessions have a fixed price of £222. The payment must be made in full to confirm the booking via BACS with details sent via a confirmation email. There are no discounts offered so please respect this as it is a long session and requires alot of physical work from my side. 

The whole body becomes revitalised when all the surfaces of the genitals are stimulated and massaged. A network of reflex points corresponding to all areas of the body is located on both the lingam and yoni, as on the feet and hands. Genital areas become energetically deficient and begin to cause dysfunction if blockages and tissues are not massaged.

THERE IS NO EJACULATION OF ANY KIND.

In order for a lingam massage to be carried out successfully, the lingam should not be erect. Many techniques can’t be done if so and we would have to move on. There are no sexual encouragements during the massage which MUST be respected. If at any point the lingam does become erect, this is natural and nothing to worry about as I always sublime the energy and we can carry on once it comes down. The whole aim of this is to release stagnant energy. 

The genital areas are really sensitive and we ensure that there is no sexual stimulation as the intention is to awaken the energy to spread and sublime it through to the higher chakras. The effects may differ from person to person. Some may feel a blissful feeling where others may feel a sense of pleasure or an orgasmic feeling of energy throughout the body. The effects will depend also depend on the receiving power of the receiver and also on their spiritual level. 

The yoni in particular has many reflexology points which are directly linked to organs or the body and chakras. The yoni massage entails g-spot activation, exploration, cervix massage and deep massage during which all the pranic energy is spread throughout the body causing a pleasant and deep inner satisfaction. 

This depends on your personal goals. Some people come every few months or whenever they feel the need for deep energetic maintenance, others during times of stress, transition, or healing.

Sensual massages are different to a Tantric massage. In the sense that a sensual massage concentrates on pleasure, however a Tantric massage is a spiritual one where the body is bought in balance through healing techniques. The receiver may feel bliss at times and emotional releases which are all part of the healing process. Activation and not stimulation. 

The yoni is the sacred temple of a female body, a place of worship and creation. The yoni massage is part of a tantric massage, however, this is only optional. There is never any force to work here physically, the yoni can be worked on energetically with distance healing or even Reiki energy. The yoni holds the secrets, pain, trauma, happiness and so much more if respected and gently activated in a safe environment. 

It is not possible to just do a yoni massage, this is a part of the full session if required for healing and not sexual purposes. 

This is a personal question, I believe you know when you are ready to rise and find clarity. Tantra is the path of spiritual enlightenment, not sex. Tantra is the worship of energy and in order to practice any spiritual method, the body needs to be physically, mentally and energetically in a calm space where the mind is at peace. 

This is a change of lifestyle and not a fad. Tantra is a serious path of spiritual growth, a proven science and as a practitioner, I have the highest respect for all that come to share this healing experience with me. 

There are thousands of Tantric Rituals which include meditation, chanting, sacred geometry, healing techniques and worship of the divine. A Tantric massage technically is not a ritual but we work in the mode of worshiping the divine within you. So I can only offer love and respect to you and be of service where I offer myself as a medium for healing. 

Tantric Rituals are taught as initiations during a journey of learning Tantra, which is a lifelong path.

No I do not offer this service. A Nuru Massage is usually not in the scope of a Tantric Massage. A Nuru Massage generally is for body to body massages and offers a gliding sensation where the gel acts as a medium for pleasure. This is not something I offer. 

I have many years of experience with Ayurvedic massage and I have picked up many Shiatsu teachings from Dr Gonghzi who has mentored me in Chi and Shiatsu techniques. These techniques of meridian healing are part of my skillset where I weave between all modes of my training so far as a massage therapist.

Herbal steaming with medicinal properties have been used by many ladies in a Yoni Spa and they may have healing properties. This is not something that I offer nor is it an area that I have expertise in as of yet.